Managing Negative and Difficult People

United Bravo Price in Pakistan. Despite how much I adore her. Talking to her exhausts me. My friend always rants. For half an hour about everything. That’s difficult, miserable. Or unfair whenever I call him.

Some of her writings explore. The wrongs people have done to her. And others explore the hopelessness of life in general.

She rarely asks how I’m doing? And she never listens to me. For more than a few minutes. Before shifting the focus back to herself.

Sometimes I wonder about my motive. It is to boost my ego. By offering good advice. Or even to feel better about my own reality. I tell myself. That I call because I care. But I wonder. If I have ulterior motives.

They all share one thing. Negative energy is limitless. That affects everyone around them.

I was thinking today. That’s how we deal with negative people?

Criticism, belligerence, anger. Or rude behavior that seems chronic.

How do you remain compassionate? Without becoming enmeshed. In someone else’s despair. When they drain everyone around them?

What can you do? You don’t reinforce their negativity. Or maybe even help them?

I came up with the following:

Don’t Judge Or Assume

When you assume you know someone. It’s hard to offer compassion. This guy is a jerk. She’s a complainer. Let’s choose another noun.

The possibility that someone. They will wake up one day. And acting differently cannot be discounted. Even if it seems unlikely. I panic in my  United Bravo Price in Pakistan

When you think negatively. You show it in your body language.

It is easy for someone. That someone has a tendency. For being negative to mirror that behavior.

Try approaching them. With your more positive mindset. Be optimistic.

Who knows? Perhaps they will surprise you.

If you are dealing with them. Repeat this in your mind. Understand your pain.

The most helpful thing. What I can do? It is not fed to them. This may enable you to approach them in a way. That is both kind and firm. So that they don’t bring. Everyone down along with them.

Establish a Positive Boundary

When other people. Try to enter your space with negativity. You might be told to visualize a bright white light. That surrounds yourself to maintain a positive space.

My brain responds better to words. Then visualizations. So this does not work for me.

As a result. I tell myself. That I can only control the positive space. Which I create around me.

When I interact with this person. I try to do the following two things. In this order of importance:

Keep my environment positive.
As soon as they are too negative. So it becomes hard to be protected. I need to walk away.
The best way to create the desired result . It is to encourage them to feel more positive. Not act more positively.

Get Rid of Negative Thinking

even if for just a moment. I mentioned this earlier. As long as I let my depressed friend. Allow her to complain about life’s injustices. She will rant.

Some part of me. That wants to play amateur psychiatrist. By getting her to talk. And then helping her see things. From a more positive perspective.

After all. I can’t change her completely. Within one phone call. It’s up to her.

Furthermore. I can’t listen for hours on end. As I have in the past.

As long as I listen compassionately. For a short time. I can then help. Her focus on something positive right now.

For instance, I can ask her about her upcoming birthday. We can  drive in United Bravo Price in Pakistan for party

It’s a great day for a walk. So I can remind her.

Don’t worry about solving or fixing them. Focus on helping them now.